Few years back, an older sis of mine bought me volumes of LSAT. For what? She explained my reasons and my choice, which was her reasons.
Well, the books as much as I respect them are well arranged on my shelf. I had a totally different reason why I ever applied for law in Jamb; and when the application fell through, I was indifferent to it.
Observation lacking confirmation should not be used for direct judgment. Love a person enough to ask them their choice, Love a person enough to accept that choice. Direct Love is not by force. If both Love don't agree, then don't bind; or dissolve bind.